First of all I want to say that we are not going into the theory of this topic, we will only talk about the practical application of this so that it is easy to draw the same in our lives. The following content is totally practical related. So, let us discuss about how to make attractive personality?To go into the dept of this first we have to understand what is an attractive personality.An attractive personality is the one in which a person looks cheerful and full of energy.
1.KEEP SMILING ALWAYS TO MAKE ATTRACTIVE PERSONALITY
Smiling is one of the main aspect in which a person looks attractive. We should look to the person with a smiley and cheerful face so that the person thinks that we are genuinely interested in him/her and want to talk or spend some time with him/her.Smiling doesn’t mean laughter yoga session in the park or a fake smile, it means a genuine smile with a genuine emotional feeling.
When we have a smile on our face we instantly look cheerful and full of positive energy and become likable to people with whom we are going to interact. When we smile we come into the moment i.e. there is no past or future, we presently live in that moment and when we experience a live moment without thinking about anything else we feel better. This has a scientific reason too- When we smile genuinely Endorphin-es are released in the brain cells of our body. When we smile our body becomes light and we feel stress free for that moment.
2. A CLEAR SCIENCE BEHIND SMILING: A REASON FOR ATTRACTIVE PERSONALITY
You should try to feel the activity and feel the sensations which goes in the brain when we smile, and after that you will be able to understand the importance of smiling. Because reading and understanding is a way process but if we practically experience the feelings then our understanding will become more clear. But if you able to feel the sensations then you will smile even if you are in a crowded place or sitting alone.You will see the whole world and have a pleasant smile on face, and you will start feeling better.
Now when you will smile you will start feeling better, as you feel better, you will produce a more genuine smile on your face, and this will result in a loop -‘more genuine smile more better feeling’.
3. ALWAYS LOVE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT TO MAKE ATTRACTIVE PERSONALITY
Another major aspect of having a good personality is loving yourself and loving your life. If you love yourself then it is almost true that you will love others too, love people, love places, love things etc. A person who doesn’t love his/her self, how could that person love anyone else? So it is very important that we start loving our-self. Even if we don’t look good, have flaws in our appearance or behavior we should love our-self as there is nobody perfect in this world.
Then comes another point which is loving your life. A person is more interested in that person whose life is full of new experiences, adventures or full of happiness and joy. A person is not attracted to a person whose life is boring, full of depression and sadness. So we should enjoy our lives with the utmost joy, even our life is boring we should try to make it interesting and adventurous as “we are the writer of our own story”.
4. BETTER COMMUNICATION SKILLS ENHANCES OUR PERSONALITY.
Further comes another point which is the most common that is “communication skills”. Believe it or not it majorly helps someone to build a good personality. So to improve your communication skills you should become fluent in the respective language you are going to speak with a person. Further more you should match the rhythm of the other person’s way of talking i.e. if he/she talks with you with a higher energy or excitement level then you should also increase your energy, and excitement level and if he is in low spirits ,then you should be talking with him in the same attitude .
The speed in talking, pauses between sentences etc should match with the other person’s way of talking, as a result people will automatically start liking you.
5. STOP BEING JUDGEMENTAL.
Another point is not to be judgmental i.e. we should not judge people on the basis of looks, behavior or anything. A person can only judge someone if he/she is perfect in that field. Practically if you notice, a person doesn’t like those people who start judging someone without having proper information about him/her. Instead a person likes those people whose don’t judge others and readily accept or accompany them.
Moreover people who judge others doesn’t know themselves properly, i.e. they don’t know the flaws in themselves. If they know that they are having flaws in themselves they will automatically stop judging others. If a person start knowing about himself/herself then he/she will stop judging others and accept other people readily.
6. HAVE A POSITIVE OUTLOOK.
Further more is the use of positive vibes. We people have an instinct to always look in our flaws and not on our achievements or good things which are happening in our life. As a result we always think of the negative things which have made our life tough and finally negative vibes comes out of our body. When we speak to a person this reflects in our behavior. So this by-default nature should be changed.
So practically if you are feeling low or thinking something negative then at the moment you should immediately perceive what are you thinking or on what topic is your thought process going on. After that just see the positive side of the context on which you were thinking and you will start feeling better.
7. BE APPRECIATIVE OF EACH OTHER.
One more point is that we should keep appreciating the other person if we like something in them so that the person feels motivated and friendly with us. After getting appreciation the person will automatically tend to like us.
8. A FINAL TAKE.
At last I conclude that we should try to implement these steps in our lives and observe the changes occurring in our personality. These steps will help you to make your personality attractive and hence will help in interacting with other people without hesitation. If everyone would have an attractive personality then the world will become a better place to live in.